11 weeks agoMoscooter, I signed that second mortgage somewhere around 2003 or 2004 so she could pay off 5K in credit card debt, she was supposed to use it one time and pay it back. I did not know until about 2015 that she had kept using it for all those years and ran it up to 30k and everytime it would get paid down a little she would hit it again and max it out. That is why I need out of here she is ruining my credit and also keeps mounting up bills because of uncontrollable spending. Then runs and tells her lawyer and anyone who will listen that I give her nothing toward paying the bills and that all she spends on is her medication because she is so sick. The fact is that she has plenty of energy to go out and eat almost every day and spends uncontrollably on baskets and ornaments and dishes and jewelry.
I on the other hand watch my spending closely and I let her have my whole dupont retirement in the joint acct. to pay bills. All I am saying is who is the real culprit here??????? But I am the one that is going to get screwed.